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tranquility

We graduate for a reason.

Once we walk across that stage, we do not only recognize that we finished our educational goal, we also recognize that we will be closing the door on all the high school drama, and all the immaturity that was committed by others and by you. We are suppose to feel accomplished that we age not only by the years we are on this Earth but how we handle situations and we leave our worth.

Sadly to say, we women, yes we women especially never get over all of the drama. Especially the Drama Queens, who do not know their own self worth and may never realize it till their late 40’s. Its sad to say. But it is worth it to make you look like a high school freak? Someone that screams, yells, and make a mockery of themselves?
What I do not understand, is what do you ACTUALLY accomplish by calling the person you are angry at, and yell at them? Do you get some sort of satisfactory out of it? Does it solve the problem besides letting out their angry? I understand we all get mad we all get angry and we all yell, but at the same time, what is the reason for calling someone out?

I only write this blog today because of a incident that occurred to me yesterday. As I am at work, I received a text message from someone who I have been involved with since high school, and known since middle school to I have known this person for 12 years if not longer. The message read and i quote,

” Morning spending time with my wife and kid today so I’ll ttyl” -

Now to my knowledge, they have been divorced. I was on the phone with this guy while he was delivering his divorce decree to his Sargent, yes he is a Army Man. Now at the time I was angry and replied back to him, “Wife? Seriously D______ thanks for attempting to make us work again bastard.” of course my initial reaction was anger and heart break, but I realized I am too grown and much better than to make a phone call to express my hurt yet….The wife calls me and leaves me a Voice-mail stating and i quote again,

” Angela, this is L___, D____ Wife, D_____ did not text you earlier that was me, His Wife, I just wanted to call and let you know that D____ is still single and available but he has been fucking and messing around with me, I hope our okay with that bye.”

-end of voicemail- my reaction was really…this girl has lost it. Then I get a text message from her once again of her giving me cell phone number! At this point I was just done and sent him a text message stating

D_____ call me when you get the chance, L___, I rather hear it from him than you

Now, time passes and I just came to realization all she wants is to get a reaction from she wants to start a war. Why? She was the one who step out the marriage first, she was the one wasting away his money he sent home every check while fighting a war across the world. She was the one sleeping and seeing another man…so what now that he is seeing someone else, cares for someone else, loves someone else she feels uneasy? that she lost something?

I just really don’t understand. So my dear tumblr friends please enlighten me on you POV of everything because I do not understand the reason who the drama attempt, why does she want a reaction, a war a battle to see who wins his affection.

5 days ago